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It’s impossible to spoil a newborn with your love and attention – Find out why…

Whether it’s from a family member or a well-meaning neighbor, almost every new mommy has heard the same warning at some point or another: “If you keep picking up your baby every time she cries, you’re going to spoil her.” Or “Watch out — you can spoil a newborn by feeding her whenever she wants.” To those who say you pay too much attention — don’t pay them any attention (true for much of the unwanted baby advice you’ll be getting). The truth is, it’s impossible to spoil a newborn. That’s right, impossible! And the experts agree. Here’s what the research shows:

Newborns cry because they have basic needs — to be fed, held, comforted, and loved. (more…)

Most women breastfeed in a sitting position although research suggests that breastfeeding newborn babies lying down may boost the chances of success (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/6612573.stm). A study of 40 mothers breastfeeding in different positions found that babies’ natural reflexes kicked in more easily when the mothers were lying down.

The position seemed to trigger primitive reflexes usually seen in young mammals, the Royal College of Nursing conference heard. Many women struggle with breastfeeding and give up after a few weeks. (more…)